Showing posts with label things that annoy me. Show all posts
Showing posts with label things that annoy me. Show all posts

Thursday, May 2, 2013

My latest pet peeve...


Oh, I have many things that annoy me, but this is the one currently stuck in my head.

Contractions in books for kids (like early readers, for kids seven and under). I just don't like it.

Back in my old school days, you know, the days when one had to walk up hill to and from school, contractions were a big No No during English class. It was considered lazy to shorten words; and really, we were, essentially, only dropping one or two letters at the most, so why not just write the whole word out.

In today's world of texting and tweeting, kids are growing up without even using vowels half the time. I admit I am guilty of doing this too; you have to ditch something when trying to fit a thought into 140 – 160 characters. Therefore, I feel it is especially important to preserve proper writing in kid's book; to show kids how to actually spell words and form sentences.

I also understand the concept that we often read with our ears - that is sentences written in a conversational tone are easier to read and to comprehend. However, I do not see why we should make everything in life easy. What is wrong with being a little bit challenged?

Besides, I find contractions make learning to read more difficult. My daughter is starting to sound out words, and in order to sound out words you need letters and VOWELS. You try sounding out doesn't.

So publishers of children's books, please stop using contractions. And writers, remember you often get paid per word; so is two words not better than one?

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Planning ahead...

So, the other day I received a notice in the mail about... SUMMER CAMP!

Yep, the calendar still says January; it is freezing cold outside; and someone decided that I should start planning for summer activities. I guess in a way it makes sense, since I am thinking about escaping to somewhere warm... on-the-other-hand I still have CHRISTMAS presents that I have not given out yet!!

Is it me or are marketing/sales people trying to push us to plan ahead. I swear I see signs for back to school sales at the end of June; when kids are still in school (granted, I admit I do start doing a back to school countdown by July 1); and every year, Christmas stuff starts showing up in stores earlier and earlier. I think I see holiday decorations in Costco in August!

I understand the need to plan ahead, but I think this is getting a bit ridiculous.

For me, this constant reminder that I have to keep planning, or doing something, whether it is deciding on which summer camp to send my child, what halloween costume to make, or what Christmas gifts to buy makes me feel very anxious. I have enough trouble thinking about what to make for dinner tonight!

Sometimes I wonder whatever happened to just taking a breath, and living and enjoying the moment (hopefully that moment is quiet and I have a nice cup of coffee, or a glass of wine in my hand)?

So I say screw thinking about summer camp, for now; I can always do it next week...

How far do you start planning ahead for things (I am usually exceedingly happy and proud of myself if I book my kid into a camp a week before it starts...)?

Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Two words that drive me batty...

I WANT.

I think these two words should be removed from a child's vocabulary; especially when used in combination with a whiny voice. Nothing grates on my nerves these days like hearing the words “I want” coming out of my child's mouth.

Seriously, whatever happened to: mommy, may I please or mommy, I would like...

Did I wake up one morning and suddenly went from mommy to servant? Oh wait, servants get paid and have the potential to quit if their boss is being an ass. I now rank beneath a servant.

When did my little girl become a little tyrant? Mommy, do this; mommy, I want; mommy, get me the, mommy, mommy, mommy....

And yes, though I realize that I should hold firm and say no, and make wait for her to ask politely, I am also too tired to deal with another temper tantrum or some whiny tirade. But now, enough is enough, this behaviour cannot be tolerated, and I definitely do not want it to get worse (unless mommy starts seeing some green or some sort of compensation).

So currently, neither my daughter or I are getting what we want. I think we have to settle with being miserable together.

As I am now in a whiny complaining mood myself, here is a partial list of what this mommy wants:

  • I want some peace and quiet in the morning, and in the afternoon and the evening too
  • I want sleep
  • I want someone else to cook dinner, do laundry, and clean...
  • I want my pre-baby body
  • I want to have a meal without begging, or yelling, and in restaurants, I want to leave before the table that came in after us
  • I want to not feel rushed to get home by 9pm
  • I want to not feel that 9 pm is very late
  • I want a thank you once in a while
  • I want to leave the house without feeling rushed
  • I want a well behaved child who does not whine and say I want...

But here is the thing I want most in life: I want my daughter to grow up to be a good person. I want her to be happy and proud of who she is.

Oh! And financial security does not hurt either.

What are some of the things that annoy you and what do you want?