Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Planning ahead...

So, the other day I received a notice in the mail about... SUMMER CAMP!

Yep, the calendar still says January; it is freezing cold outside; and someone decided that I should start planning for summer activities. I guess in a way it makes sense, since I am thinking about escaping to somewhere warm... on-the-other-hand I still have CHRISTMAS presents that I have not given out yet!!

Is it me or are marketing/sales people trying to push us to plan ahead. I swear I see signs for back to school sales at the end of June; when kids are still in school (granted, I admit I do start doing a back to school countdown by July 1); and every year, Christmas stuff starts showing up in stores earlier and earlier. I think I see holiday decorations in Costco in August!

I understand the need to plan ahead, but I think this is getting a bit ridiculous.

For me, this constant reminder that I have to keep planning, or doing something, whether it is deciding on which summer camp to send my child, what halloween costume to make, or what Christmas gifts to buy makes me feel very anxious. I have enough trouble thinking about what to make for dinner tonight!

Sometimes I wonder whatever happened to just taking a breath, and living and enjoying the moment (hopefully that moment is quiet and I have a nice cup of coffee, or a glass of wine in my hand)?

So I say screw thinking about summer camp, for now; I can always do it next week...

How far do you start planning ahead for things (I am usually exceedingly happy and proud of myself if I book my kid into a camp a week before it starts...)?

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

My anti-resolutions


So, for the last couple of years I wrote about my stance on not having any New Year's resolutions (here is my post from last year). And, as I am a creature of habit, I do not plan to start doing resolutions this year.

However, I do believe I should have a couple of goals this year - sort of a to-do list. I figure if I do not have some sort of plan, or a task, to motivate me, I will end up sitting here, slowly morphing into a blob creature while watching Youtube videos and reading trashy online novels all day.

  1. We will clean the upstairs office so that we can actually use it as an office. It will no longer be just another store room to hide crap when guests are coming
  1. Finally put up those wires we bought to display my daughter's 'art' – we purchased these things at least three years ago...
  1. Complete one craft project – failing that, recycle the stuff that I have been storing away to do craft projects
  1. Ensure the house does not look like squatters have moved in

And of course the important goals...

  1. Play with my daughter more
  1. Listen
  1. Control my temper
  1. And be the parent that my little one needs me to be.

What are your goals this year? And if you do have resolutions, how in the world do you keep them?!?!


Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Review - Disney On Ice presents Worlds of Fantasy


December 21 was a very exciting day for my child. It was pyjama day at school; it was the last day of school for the year; and she was going to Disney On Ice presents World of Fantasies with her best friend that night (granted, I suspect that she was just excited that she was allowed to stay up late with her friend).

My daughter's review of the show.

According to my daughter, the show was GREAT, so much so that she asked when she can go again. My kid watched most of the show like she was watching television, which is actually a great compliment. You see, when my kid watches television, a unicorn can come prancing around her, and she would not notice.

About the show.

The show itself was about two hours long, including a brief intermission half way through.

The 'plot' was essentially Mickey, Minnie, Donald and Goofy going on an adventure to different worlds of fantasy. The four characters were not actually in the different worlds, but were there to introduce the segments of the show.

The first 'world' was located in Radiator Springs from "Disney/Pixar Cars" . The kids were not very impressed with this part. My daughter had not actually seen the movie, though she knew some of the characters from her friends, so she really could care less when a bunch of talking cars driving around on the ice. I, on the other hand. kept thinking that I could really use a set of their tires for my car this winter....

The next world was when the show really started for the kids. The show entered an underwater kingdom to meet Arial, Sebastian and friends as the skaters performed an incredibly condensed version of a Little Mermaid. The kids were completely enthralled by the costumes, which included a giant sea horse, and the troupe of skaters doing all sort of tricks to the very familiar songs from the film.

After, the audience was taken from the bottom of the sea to an enchanted forest where a flying fairy introduced us to Tinker Bell. Once again, the kids were enthralled by the large production numbers, the brightly coloured costumes, and they really liked fairies. Though my daughter (as far as I know) was not overly familiar with the Tinker Bell story series, she nevertheless loved it.

Then there was an intermission, where we avoided buying ridiculously expensive souvenirs or $10 cotton candy (it did come with a hat...).

After the intermission, the rest of the show was essentially a shortened version of Toy Story 3. Though my daughter had not seen this movie either, she still loved the second half. Now keep in mind, the second half started around eight, which was usually the time when my daughter should be tucked in bed. As she was not very familiar with the movie, I was worried that this part of the show would not hold her attention, and most parents know that a tired, bored child can turn a good time to an extremely unpleasant experience in the blink of an eye. However, my fears were completely unfounded. She loved watching Buzz, Woody and friends dance and skate around to various pop tunes. I kept thinking about the person, who after years of skating training is now the back of a pig (Hamm).

My impressions.

As mentioned earlier, my daughter and her best friend loved the show (except for maybe the “Cars” section), and I am pretty sure if your children likes skating, and loves Disney they will probably enjoy the show as well (especially if they are under eight years old).

However, I always think that it is also important to mention if grown ups might like the show, after all you have to sit there for two hours too.

I thought the show was not bad. It kept me fairly entertained. The costumes were great, and considering it was an ice show, the sets were pretty impressive, especially the Toy Story section, with its giant book cases, and shelves – it kind of did make the audience feel 'toy' sized. The music mainly came from the films and cartoons, so if you are familiar with them, it should be pretty recognizable.

The skating on the other hand was not spectacular, but I did not expect to see Kurt Browning (insert famous skater name here). On the other hand, I think even Browning would had some trouble doing jumps and spins with a giant foam 'jet pack' strapped onto his back like the skater who was Buzz Lightyear had to. There were a few slips, falls and missed tricks; at one point, the Prince dropped the Little Mermaid on her bum while trying to do a lift or a spin – I think he should be doing a lot more than just 'kiss the girl' to apologize for that one – I am thinking jewellery. All the skaters did recover well whenever there was a slip, and the show continued without missing a beat. I don't think my daughter ever noticed the mistakes. Another saving grace for the show, was that there was usually a lot of skaters on the ice at any one time, so unless you happened to be looking directly at the skater making the mistake, you would probably miss seeing it. Note: if your child is really into figure skating and can tell a Lutz from a Salchow (I had to look those terms up), perhaps this may not be the show for you.

Overall though, I think the experience was pretty fun. It was a good show, maybe not great, but I definitely did not feel like I lost two hours out of my life – two hours better spent doing last minute holiday prep...

I did spend a lot of time during the show enjoying the look of happiness and concentration on my daughter's face, instead of the activities on the ice. I do not think she spoke a single word to me during the show, that is how much she loved it. And in the end, if my daughter is happy, I am happy.


Fine Print - Feld Entertainment provided me with complimentary tickets to this show, in exchange for my time and efforts in attending the show, and reporting my opinion within this blog. However, the opinions about the show, and everything else are 100 per cent mine.


Tuesday, December 4, 2012

DISCOUNT CODE for Disney On Ice presents Worlds of Fantasy


I really do not know how Santa does it... I am close to pulling out all my hair trying to get one toy for only ONE kid...

Anyway, as I am feeling like a complete failure as a parent right now – really, why is it so hard to find one stupid doll – maybe I can feel a bit better by sharing this discount code for Disney On Ice presents Worlds of Fantasy. At least I can try to give someone a gift....

The show will be at Rogers Centre in Toronto from December 21 – December 30, 2012. For more information please visit http://disney.go.com/disneyonice/

Discount offer – 4 tickets for $44 on WEEKDAYS and $4 off per ticket on weekends.

Promotion code – MUM4

Fine print - Excludes Front Row, Rinkside, and VIP tickets. No double discounts. Additional Fees May Apply. Weekday is defined as Monday thru Thursday and Friday Matinee. Weekend is defined as Friday evening and Saturday and Sunday. Please put the code in the box for “promotions” NOT family pack. The promotion price does not include fees from Ticketmaster. 





Feld Entertainment may be providing me with complimentary tickets to this show, in exchange for my time and efforts in attending the show, and reporting my opinion within this blog. However, the opinions about the show, and everything else are 100 per cent mine.


pictures courtesy of: Disney characters and artwork, © Disney. Disney/Pixar characters and

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

It is that time of year again.... time to play Santa...


At our house, we started this little ritual a couple of years ago. I give my daughter the toy catalogues, (the ones that seem to come daily this time of year), then she goes through them all, cuts out her favourites and glues them onto one piece of paper to be sent to Santa.

This project accomplishes a few things. It gives me a clue as to what she wants for Christmas. It helps with her planning and future thinking skills – she can only fit so many toys on a page, so she must figure out which toys she really wants, and plan how to fit as many toys as she can onto a piece of paper (spatial reasoning skills?). It helps with her motor skills (the cutting and glueing). This year, we plan to work on her literacy skills as she must also write a letter to Santa. AND most importantly, it keeps her busy while I cook dinner.

Nevertheless, no matter what toy we get her, and no matter how much effort we put in trying to find some gender neutral, educational alternative to the Barbie doll and nail polish kit that she glued onto that sheet of paper, the toy will inevitably end up on the floor somewhere to become a tripping hazard or end up jabbing me in my foot.

So for her birthday this year we tried something different. Instead of a big expensive toy, we got her an experience. The whole family went to see the live production of Beauty and the Beast. We still got her a little toy to open on her birthday, even I realize that it would be difficult to explain to a five year old why there is nothing to unwrap, but her actual present, which happened about two months later, was the show.

Even though she did not completely enjoy the show (long story, maybe I will save it for another post), it did start me thinking that maybe this is the way to go for presents. Instead of another toy (more crap for me to clean up), why not do something fun as a family. Something that will leave very little physical presence (nothing for me to stub my toe on), but at the same time, something that can be enjoyed by all and leave a lasting memory.

To help you give a gift of an experience, here is a discount code for Disney On Ice presents Worlds of Fantasy. The show will be at Rogers Centre in Toronto from December 21 – December 26, 2012. For more information please visit http://disney.go.com/disneyonice/




Discount offer – 4 tickets for $44 on WEEKDAYS and $4 off per ticket on weekends.

Promotion code – MUM4

Fine print - Excludes Front Row, Rinkside, and VIP tickets. No double discounts. Additional Fees May Apply. Weekday is defined as Monday thru Thursday and Friday Matinee. Weekend is defined as Friday evening and Saturday and Sunday. Please put the code in the box for “promotions” NOT family pack. The promotion price does not include fees from Ticketmaster. 





More Fine print - Feld Entertainment may be providing me with complimentary tickets to this show, in exchange for my time and efforts in attending the show, and reporting my opinion within this blog. However, the opinions about the show, and everything else are 100 per cent mine.


pictures courtesy of: Disney characters and artwork, © Disney. Disney/Pixar characters and artwork © Disney/Pixar.

Saturday, November 17, 2012

A song for my girl


Question: If you can pick a song for your child what would it be?

If I have to answer that question right now, it would have to be Short Skirt Long Jacket by Cake.

I kind of hope that my little girl can grow up to be a bit like the girl in this song.

A girl who can embrace her femininity, sensuality (and even sexuality, though, I would really rather not think about this for many, many, many years), beauty, and also be smart, confident, resourceful, and a girl who definitely will not take crap from anyone.

I love some of the dichotomy in this song, the yin and yang of it all. And that is what I want for my girl. I want her to be able to be and to do everything and anything; to have all possibilities opened to her. I want her to be both the princess and the knight; to be a model and a doctor; to be a ballerina and a scientist...

So as the song says....

"I want a girl with a mind like a diamond
I want a girl who knows what's best...."

and...

"She's playing with her jewelry
She's putting up her hair
She's touring the facility
And picking up slack"

and...

"I want a girl with uninterrupted prosperity
Who uses a machete to cut through red tape
With fingernails that shine like justice
And a voice that is dark like tinted glass"

and

"I want my girl with a short skirt and a lonnnnnnggggg jacket."

What song will you pick for your son and/or daughter?

Thursday, November 1, 2012

Going to the Theatre... sort of...


When I was a little girl, my parents took me to see Andrew Lloyd Webber's Cats, and I fell in love.

Now, I am by no means a theatre buff; I had been to Stratford and Shaw Festivals only once in my life - basically if you can compare to my theatre going experience to books: I am more of a Jane Austen girl as compared to War and Peace, more Dan Brown than Umberto Eco. I like theatre lite.

However, I still feel there is something quite magical about a live production; for one thing, you are watching something in actual 3D! And, it is always fun to dress up and go out on a special occasion.

So, I would really like to share the experience of going to musicals, concerts, theatres and other extravagant live shows with my little one. I think it is good for her to experience different sorts of art and culture and entertainment, and to learn to sit still.

Now, just because I want to bring my daughter to a show, does not mean I can just pick any show, buy tickets and just go. There are very important considerations.

  • We have to consider subject matter – I have a five year old, so the show has to be family friendly, and for us, MUST have a happy ending. Hopefully it will be entertaining for adults as well.
  • There should be a easy to follow plot – i.e. no time paradoxes, weird soap opera like subplots, or anything else that will require me to spend the entire time of the show trying to explain what is happening to my daughter.
  • Colourful costumes, and cheerful characters – once again, my kid is five, and she likes colours and cute things. She is also terrified of the dark, so I doubt we will be seeing a show like Phantom of the Opera anytime soon.
  • Stuff should happen (besides plot) – people or things should move, and talk/sing, and do stuff, to hold her attention. There is no way my child can sit through anything slow and cerebral, nor do I expect her to.
  • Length of show - the show should not be too long, unless the show is spectacular with lots of special effects, my child cannot sit still for more than an hour at a time.
  • Price – I am hoping that it would not be too expensive. I just do not want to feel bad if I have to leave in the beginning or middle of the show, or feel that I have to force my kid to stay for the entire thing even if she is not happy (“mommy and daddy paid a lot of money for this so you are staying and you are going to like it”). I understand this is not always possible, but one can hope.

So, when I saw the Disney on Ice presents Worlds of Fantasy, I thought maybe this will be a good continue introduction to live shows. Last year she saw Disney Live! presents Three Classic Fairytales and loved it.

Let us see if it can meet my pre-show checklist:

  • Subject matter – it is a Disney show, and since I see nothing that would imply Old Yeller or Bambi's mom will be involved in this show, I think we are good.
  • Plot – there are cars, toys, mermaids, fairies and of course two very famous mice. I think she might be happy even if there is no story.
  • Colourful costumes – we are talking about cartoons coming to life, so the costumes are probably going to be pretty spectacular.
  • Stuff should happen – it is an ice skating show, pretty sure there will be lots of action, spins, jumps and tricks. And, I believe there will be cars on ice (granted, I can always watch cars driving on ice by looking out my window in January...)
  • Length of show and price – I am not sure how long the show is, and the tickets are not cheap, but not unreasonable either (okay, I think the top tiered seats are a little bit much, but they are supposed to be the best seat in the house).
I think my kid might really enjoy this show. Hopefully, if she has a great experience, she will be more open to other kinds of shows (the only show she likes so far is the ballet the Nutcracker, and I can only watch the Nutcracker so many times before I go nuts, and my wallet empties)

And maybe, when she is older, we can do a family trip to Stratford or Shaw.

For more information about the show, please visit Disney On Ice .


Fine Print:
Feld Entertainment may be providing me with complimentary tickets to this show, in exchange for my time and efforts in attending the show, and reporting my opinion within this blog. However, the opinions about the show, and everything else are 100 per cent mine.
pictures courtesy of 
Disney characters and artwork, © Disney. Disney/Pixar characters and artwork © Disney/Pixar.